The Devilish Black Widow

Art created and Revised By Emmitt for web log, November 22, 2000 The Devilish Black Widow


During the course of human events and in the drama of everyday life, how curious in the lives and mating of some humans, there is a similarity to the mating of the deadly black widow spider. The drama of life is to observe the passionate male fool, who is senselessly loving and living from out of his illusive and reckless sexual desire. He is passive to future mental pain, death and danger as he denies the warnings of his eventual despair in the mating relationship.

In his permissiveness and careless apathy, the male who would mate the deadly black widow, is allowing his life time of happiness to be senselessly destroyed in mating relationships with the devil. Some females of the human species are comparable to the black widow, because they conduct themselves in killing love affairs as do the black widow spider. Some foolish men are comparable to the male spider because they are attracted to this type of evil woman. She is the kind of woman who, it is guranteed she will tear their hearts asunder, and drain their lively substance. This kind of evil woman will orphan her natural offspring, by making fatherless their helpless and innocent children. The man who produces his offspring by such a woman, whose character is like the black widow, can expect her to immediately become discontented, bored and then in her discontent and greed, she will separate and through separation she steals natural offspring responsibilities.

THE CHARACTER OF THE BLACK WIDOW. The black widow is selfishly independent, and at first meeting she appears to be patient with a placid happy disposition. If this female species becomes bored, deprived or angered, she then becomes aggressive and vindictive and her whole being is set upon revenge.Anything she doesn’t like angers her to the point of exacting vindictive expiation. At such times she will demand more than equal rights, she in every sense is illogical, unreasonable and without compassion. Out of revenge she will demand the last vital drop of life giving substance from her mate.

In her beginning, the black widow matures to the time of her life when she needs a mate. She has a need for a male who will pleasure her while procreating her fatherless offspring. She is capable of only one kind of love. When she loves she can only love with an animal or instinctive, selfish or self fulfilling kind of love. This is the only kind of love she allows. Her kind of love is a love that is generated from selfish intoxicating desire or want. She never loves with an unconditional kind of benevolent selfless care for her mate. When she is pained, bored, discontented or angered, she will never show tender compassion for any mate. Unknown to her mate, are her caustic capabilities, or that her intentions are deadly and terminal. She never shows her viciousness at first meeting, but instead with every new and foolish mate, she portrays herself with innocent kindness, a virtuous virgin or widow with many moods that appear kind and gentle. Although The black widow may be ancient in experience with many lovers, yet she appears to the naive male, as a lonely virgin, an innocent lady of intrigue and mystery.

If it can be said of any spider, the black widow is beautiful. Her coloring is colored with a coal or sometimes velvety black— (Devils can appear to be white, but are a horror of darkness that can not be painted.)

Under her abdomen is colored a beautiful bright sexy red. To the male spider, she may put on placid and sultry appearance, and a special delicate, allusive and mind boggling fragrance. Her alluring fragrance stultifies to the very soul of the male spider. Her enticing scent is so irresistible and alluring, her scent overpowers his natural instincts to survive in the small happiness he found in loneliness.

The black widow is not a master at building intricate or beautiful webs, but when she is making her trap for a mate, she does well. She is lazy and unorganized, but when she is in need, she is busy. In trapping a mate, she adds a special addition to the cobbled maze of her web. She builds her web for one purpose, illusion and treachery. (Subtle treachery, deviously destroys the happy life of the careless and carefree.)

In her trap, the black widow has no intentions of leading a long, loving or lasting relationship, neither does she intend to allow her mate peaceful separation. She delicately perfumes her ingenuous cobbled web with her sexually exciting and stupefying smell. She perfumes herself with an attractive odor, so she may attract a mate and arouse him sexually. A gentle breeze carries her delicate odor to where he is happily hunting. One whiff and his body flattens, then he instinctively recoils as his foolish heart is sent tantalizing into rapturous ecstasy. Immediately he begins to rush in many different directions as he senses the air for her location. Her intoxicating scent is suddenly reminding him of his loneliness and his created need for a mate. Immediately he begins to search her out. Finding her vile habitation, he cautiously puts his foot upon her treacherous web— (A fool’s foot upon the call to create an illusion with the daughter of Satan, is a foot upon treachery and her guarantee to end the good life).

The male out of his need, denies self control, as he ventures forth trembling with all four pairs of walking legs onto her intoxicating domain. Her domain is a domicile of deceptive false facade of pleasure and happiness. Like the indiscreet and blind fool, he should have known not to venture forth into the jaws of hell. He begins to create in self a great desire without discretion. This male appears to resolve self to live the life of a demented fool— (A fool’s indiscreet curiosity to be pleasured by the unreasoning scatterbrain-the end results are always disappointing.)

He appears to be senseless as he builds an illusion of love making with the daughter of the devil. His fear of her, is not a fear created from out of good sense or reasoning, but out of instinctive fear, he cuts a small escape hole in her web only as a precaution. Just in case things don’t seem to go well with the widow, he is fooling himself into thinking, the precaution of an escape hole will save him.

She is motionless as she lies in the lower covering of her web. He slowly makes his cautious approach. She is exciting him and he wants to rush in and get acquainted immediately. Approaching her slowly, he fears she will not be friendly towards him. Fearfully and unknowingly, he is making his way toward his eventual doom. Slowly and majestically she appears to float from her covering, allowing her supple body to be looked upon by him. By what he sees and senses in smell, he begins to create an illusion of passionate love from out of his selfish burning desire. His self illusion is overwhelming himself as he literally trembles at such evil beauty— (Only fools create mental fantasies that overwhelm self from out of sensual lust.)

She appears to be one of his own kind. After seeing her, to live without her is to live a life half dead. He is intoxicating himself beyond his dreams, because of his natural created need and because of her alluring beauty. As he looks upon her, he refuses to see her for what she really is, neither will he care to look beyond fulfilling his tormenting sexual desire he is creating for her. Therefore he is deceiving self from out of his agonizing need for her. He creates doom within himself, doom to her whims from this moment on— (Hell’s compulsion from sexual needs, impairs reasoning to a demented and lovesick fool. All infatuation is self created. Self infatuation is nothing more than to allow self to create a mental illusion. If illusion clouds ones reasoning to apathy, permissiveness and makes one passive to resist, then disappointment and disaster are certain to follow the self created illusion.)

As their eyes make contact, they both instinctively begin to manufacture the illusion called "Love." This kind of sexual self created illusive love, is pure animal [insect] and is created by self in the heart from out of sensual and sexual need. (There is no greater fool than the fool who will fool himself from out of any kind of need.)

She now waits for him to come to her. As he makes his timid approach, she immediately creates a love for him. The kind of love she creates, can only be described as a desire for selfish fulfillment.She desires him, but she does not hold any real compassion for him or for his welfare. It is not in her character to hold compassion for any mate. His welfare will never be considered at any cost to her. At this selfish moment of need, she will do anything for him, just to fill her desire she creates for him. She doesn’t care that he is a fool. She doesn’t care that he is impure, imperfect or careless. She cares for nothing of others, she only cares for her instinctive need to be filled with pleasure. He is young, and inexperienced. As he makes his approach, he stumbles over some skeletons of her past lovers, warning signs that unhappiness, death and destruction is the sign of her character. He is caught up in filling his selfish pleasures to the point, he does not notice the signs— (The wise and rational observe all apparent signs, but to the sexually intoxicated fool, signs mean nothing more than a stumbling.)

In his timid approach, she makes no attempt to resist this "puny little spider." Nature has created in her, a desire that yearns to be filled. She is not discreet to determine which of her species fills her needs. Just any old foolish male will do. She leads him on surreptitiously into deadly oblivion to the paradise of a fool—(Out of desire, fools create in self, this illusion, that it is paradise to live in the house with the devil’s daughter, but prudent angels reject such imaginations.)

As he nears her, their invisible auroras entwine for a brief magnetic moment, and then he is now forcing all his eight walking legs against fear for the moment of first touch. As they touch, the magnetism of their auroras are set aflame, sending auroras of both creatures into a mental frenzy to procreate new life from out of their intoxicating ecstasy.

A caressing wrestling match issues as she slowly and deliberately toys with him. She enfolds him lightly sending his pulse rocketing as he trembles out of unrestrained lust for her lithe body. He begins to speed his movements as his instinctive and natural life saving caution begins to completely fly away. In his self made deception, he is beginning to underestimate her, as he begins to assume she is not only a lady but she is weak and easy.He is deceiving himself, as he foolishly thinks he is in control. Yet, she is now only reacting deceitfully to his aggressive ego impulses. She leads him on as he throws all caution to the wind— (Caution for the good life, holds comfort and kindliness. To create illusion from carelessness shows contempt for the good life, and brings with it pain, torment and early death.)

All his suspicions about her have flown, because she has not tried to control him or the situation.
(The Ties of Self Created Illusion To Fulfill Creature Needs, Is Easily Broken From Out Of Selfishness, Boredom And Discontentment).

He now begins to thread and tie his web around her legs, trying to fasten her to her cobbled and weak web. She knows what he wants from her. She consents to his ties, knowing that his loving intentions is only to make love to her. She knows she will continue to have control and eventually the fruit of his life. After tying her, if he could reason as do humans, the male black widow spider would be thinking, the ties he has placed on her will surely hold her for a life time, then he can have his way with her without fear of vindictive retribution. He is only fooling himself, because he has entered her domain, and he doesn’t realize she has specially prepared her web for this moment of love making. There is no permanent place to cement his web too, only to her thin, weak and cobbled web. His ties can hold no more than what she is allowing him.

The mating progresses slowly as she continues to toy with him. The black (or brown) male is obviously overwhelmed for this treacherous beauty. She did not really deceive him, but he has deceived himself by creating his own illusion for her. From the first sight of her, all that has caused fear, all that appeared evil and suspicious, is now a look of righteousness. Now in a self created intoxicating illusion of love for her, she now can do no wrong, neither has she ever done any wrong. If a spider could have wisdom or instinctive survival, it is wantonly cast aside for this moment of torrid and evil love making with the daughter of the devil.

She now reaches out with her two tied forelegs and slightly embraces him, thrilling him to exaltation, driving him madly onward. Again she reaches for him, as she now completely engulfs him as he yields his whole being to her unholy embrace. Locked together in the grasp of natures love grist, the male is touching, caressing and stroking her in ecstatic rhythmic forbidden embrace. This evil embrace is forbidden because of her eventual selfish attitude toward him and his welfare. Her embrace is foreboding, because most natural and instinctive laws of self preservation, forbid yielding self to such deadly intentions. (Insurance for self happiness, in a life time love affair, is denied with a careless and the illusive affair tied to the daughter of the devil.)

This whole love affair seems against nature, because she doesn’t intend to make this a living and lasting life time love affair. To this evil female-If one dare to make love to the devil, all is fair for her to make war, when she tires of making love. The male spider is too engrossed in his selfish fulfillment, to worry about his future or the certanity that his offspring will be made fatherless, by robbing him of his offspring responsibilities. Suddenly, she is forcing him to his senses, as he tears himself away from her love embrace. Being a scatter brain, she has revealed a small part of her real evil self, by prematurely nipping him. He quickly scampers off her web through the hole he has made, and to safety. He now takes breath and refuge in solitude. He is warned, if he continues in this relationship, his future and the future of his offspring could be made orphans.
(A warning of a future marital disaster means nothing to a careless, lovesick fool). When bliss turns to disaster, in his pain and suffering and as he is dying a torturous death, as she begins to devour him alive, he will justify his folish actions and put all the blame on her.

He now knows instinctively, to be locked in her embrace is foreboding. In the future, this love making can produce only catastrophic results for himself and his offspring, because she will make fatherless his offspring, when she steals offspring responsibilities. She could have easily held him, but she appeases him by letting him go. She knows he can not resist her and he will presently return and fill her selfish needs.

Without her touch, and without the feel of her lithe body, loneliness is too nostalgic and without her love embrace is a living death. Because he does not understand his great illusive desire, he has lost his will to survive. All that remains is his own mental creation of insanity and his foolish desire for a killing love affair with the devil. Without reason, caution, without discretion for the good life, a love sick fool comes crawling back— (A wounded love sick fool, will always come crawling back.)

Several times he is forced to reality, as he is made flee for his life, but he always returns— (Yielding self to intoxicating desire with the devil, is to fail good common sense. To fail to use good common sense in a love affair, is more desecrating to character, than to be forced from out of pain, ego or pride).

He now has created a mountain of illusion in his foolish heart. He has become so armored by this black beauty, he has cast off all his fears, as he ventures forth into the Jaws of hell— (For some, to experience the most indiscreet love affair with the forbidden, is to savor the highest thrill from the most damnable verdicts of hell).

Again he adds more ties to her legs. They both near the height of ecstasy, as the head of the male is swimming for a love affair for which he would foolishly die. He now withstands the nipping that once filled his being with fear. Finally in electrifying, gyrating synchronous rhythm they complete their "Joining" in the mating pleasure ritual. The male trembles violently as he quickly double checks his weak ties to her legs.

As suddenly as the mating is over, the black widow has a change of attitude. Time to pleasure self is past and she now begins to blame him. She is not willingly to accept her sexual experience or the responsibilities from sexual pleasures. After yielding to her intoxicating desire, she now creates the attitude, she was forced by this foolish male to experience a sexual relationship she didn’t want from the beginning. Her heart is suddenly tiring of making love as she becomes critical of her mate. She cast off the illusion of love she created for this puny little spider. His presence has become contemptible. Her bordom and discontentment of his presence is unbearable. He is too old and too boring. Where is the new and where is the young? Everything about her sexual mate has suddenly changed. He is now worthless, despicable, odious, impure and imperfect. He did not fool her or force her, she fooled herself by creating an illusion for him and allowing him to tie her and sexually intercourse her.

Being filled with sexual love making, she now closely examines him, for the first time. She begins to see him as he really is, and she is discontented with this demented fool. There is only one thing she can do to relieve her boredom and discontentment. She will punish him and consume him alive. If a black widow could reason as her woman counterpart, she reasons, she can’t see what she saw in this foolish male in their beginning. She now creates a new illusion that she hates him for using her. He has forced himself on her and he has abused her. She begins to create the false illusion that she was forcibly raped, because he tied her and forced her against her will to make love to him. She now wants her freedom and his life in revenge for making love to her making her have offspring.

She now speeds her actions as she begins to buffet him. In a moment, her amorous affection is turned to hate and anger. Yet she wants more than to be loved, she wants to devour the very life of the one who would dare tie her and to join sexually with her. He is still overwhelmed by his blinding love for her. He doesn’t understand this sudden change in her. In his self deceit, he doesn’t really think she will harm him. Seriously he wants a continuing loving relationship. Yet she is just as deadly serious, as she sets about for revenge and his complete destruction. Again he yields himself to her vile embrace as she breaks and stretches his weak ties, and in scornful disgust bits him and immediately injects a paralyzing poison into him. Despite-spells his immediate doom— (The moment a fool enters the domicile of hell, treachery has found her challenge to mark the end of the good life). His heart practically burst as he quivers and shakes in his final death throws— (Nothing smarts so great as the good life lost to a little sexual foolishness with the devil).



There is no sensible reason to lose the good life from a little sexual folly with the daughter of the devil. As he is dying, she now will begin to devour him alive, regenerating their orphan brood. As the black widow cleans her mouth, if she could think as does her woman counterpart, she begins to justify her evil deeds against her mate. She justifies her evil as she says: "I have done no wrong, why should I be unhappy?" "He was a no good bum to start with." "I want more than love, because love is not enough." "I want to be free to find out who I really am." She produces her orphan offspring and her mate is too soon forgotten, as she in her lusts for a new lover, begins to devise a new plan to trap another mate.

Black widows produce a multitude of fatherless and steal a world of offspring responsibilities. Now all that remains of her foolish lover, is his empty carcass cemented to her web, alongside the carcasses of her other lovers. His empty carcass is now waving in the evening breeze, signifying to the world that he has paid the supreme penalty and gave his all for a little love making with the devil. Sometimes the foolish male black will escape after mating, only to be trapped and destroyed at a later time— (Soldiers in battle survive longer, than the fool who chances fate twice, in a love affair without discretion).

Some fools will never learn this deadly lesson—all who make love to the deadly black widow, the illusions to a happy life will soon end up dead. Out of apparent foolishness and his eventual death, a fatherless life continues as the consequence is always paid by the innocent offspring. What an awful price the innocent offspring are forced to pay, to exist without a father. Young men, I ask you, who is the most foolish, mind reasoning man, who can determine his mating relationship, and the fate of his precious offspring, or the instinctive cursed mate of the deadly black widow spider?

The male black widow spider lacks choice with whom to mate. There is no other choice for him to mate, than the devilish black widow. To procreate his orphan offspring, this poor but brave little spider is forced to mate with the sometimes larger, murderous, and devilish black widow. We reason, the death role of the male black widow, is most important. If the outcome of this relationship was reversed, he would eat her and the propagation of his species would immediately cease to exist. In his death, the male black widow is a martyred hero to his orphaned offspring. Then that which is foolish for male humans, is not necessarily foolish for male spiders.

Sagacious minds concede, one of life’s best teachers for the good life, is a close comparative study of the natural phenomenon of man’s own environment. Some of the greatest scientific technological achievements of men, are learned from a profound study of the creatures that habitat with us, on this the most beautiful of all planets. Built into every living creature, there is a standard of what is morally right for each particular species. The base of morality for earthly creatures, can be determined by the standard of instinctive creature intellect. Comparing creature intellect, on the average, most creatures far exceed man morally, even the black widow spider.

To live contented and peaceable, moral issues are a necessary part of everyone’s daily life. Without intruding into any one’s rights, philosophy or religion, let us compare the facts of our everyday life, to that of our natural surroundings, so that some may become wise or more cautious for a better and a happier life.

The mating of "The Devilish Black Widow" was observed and compared in my boat yard in Wilmington California.

Editor Willard R. Wade